[loveablefreak221]

Whenever she wants to hang out it's usually a text or a call saying "wanna hang out?" I say sure and she just hurries on to me and asks what everyone else is doing and we hang out.

But when I try to hang out she usually asks me "and do what?" and whenever I say it's up to her she doesn't answer me. But when I make a suggestion she says she's broke, and when I offer a method that doesn't require money like hang out at someones house and watch netflix she doesn't answer me.

There was once a time when she totally didn't mind hanging out when I ask and we would even used to watch movies in my room.

But She's been doing this a lot lately since she got back with her abusive boyfriend who I strongly believe she's only staying with because it's shelter to her and she would be homeless without anyone else. I'm thinking she does this because her time out of her house is limited as long as her boyfriend is home, she doesn't have it in her to just turn someone down, or I'm just someone she calls when her boyfriend is out of the way. I'm debating if I should just be stern with her and confront her about this convenient habit she has of only hanging out when SHE wants to but never answering me when I offer but I dunno if that would be pushy or not.

Any suggestions, thoughts or tips?

[Moh.Saeed]

Confront her, because to me it seems like she only calls you when she finds no one else; in other words, you are just a back up plan.

[DeathStarr]

I would confront her, but not in a harsh way.
Obviously she is in a horrible situation which may be causing her to feel confused about what is best for her. I mean, honestly, I find it terrible that she is in a abusive relationship just because her abuser/boyfriend is willing to keep her sheltered.
That is no way to live, I can only imagine how depressed and scared she is that she is basically being forced to live there. (By forced I mean, either there or the streets)

I honestly think you should talk to her and try to understand what exactly she is going through. Be her friend and offer her as much help as you can/want.

[Ephemeral]

I would ask her about it. And ask her if there's anything wrong or if there's something that you can do to help out if there is something wrong. It sounds like she might be having some problems and you may just be catching her at the wrong time. But if it does bother you, ask her about it. There's nothing wrong with that. Really, there could be many reasons that she is doing this. It's hard to know for sure what it is. So just bring it up casually and see what she has to say about it.