[loveablefreak221]

This girl I like as I stated in a previous topic we hang out when it's convenient for her, and we occasionally hang out, but she mostly comes to me to hang out instead of me going to her. I also have a job that pays really well but I don't have a car of my own and I'm forced to rely on others to get around.

She has her license and her own car but she doesn't have the luxury of going anywhere at all times due to her strict emotionally abusive boyfriend keeping her on a tight lease when hes at home, plus she's not allowed to fill up her gas tank as often as she would like due to them paying rent together. Plus it's hard for her to keep a job for long.

When we do hang out, it's not for long because once her boyfriend gets off work she has to immediately drop me and whoever else she's with and get back to him on the spot.

So how much of an disadvantage am I in with this situation? Also would perhaps my getting my own means(A car) to get around whenever I please help the situation at least a little bit?

[Ephemeral]

It sounds like the main disadvantage that you are at, from your point of view, is that she is already committed to a relationship. That relationship is what is preventing you from seeing her more. I would assume that getting your own means of transportation would help you see her more, but not by much really. If you were to be able to transport yourself to wherever, she would probably still leave when her boyfriend got off of work. My best guess would be that you are at a major disadvantage while she is still committed to another relationship.

As a more direct answer, It would help you but not in any major way or anything like that.

[FoodforYum]

You need to ask yourself if you're reading into her friendliness too much? Do yuo just have a crush? Or does she have feelings for you?

[loveablefreak221]

Originally Posted by FoodforYum

You need to ask yourself if you're reading into her friendliness too much? Do yuo just have a crush? Or does she have feelings for you?

Ah almost forgot about this topic. Anyway to answer your questions, I admit something about her just grabs me so I may have a crush on her I wouldn't have gone through so much to ensure I get on her good side enough that we're on decent speaking terms otherwise.

As for her having feelings I do not know, she seems to like the buff jock guys and I am definitely not a jock nor am I exactly in shape but she's a confusing one. One incident that threw me off was one time for my birthday when she had a decent job for a birthday gift she bought me shoes that cost over 100 dollers. I'd like to think she wouldn't spend that much money on just anyone, and she occasionally gets mad at me for not wearing them when I'm out with her.(Reason why I don't is I want to cherish them and not get them too dirty and messed up.)