[EllaBella]

Ok, i think I am starting to develop feelings for my friend's boyfriend. I don't know what to think becuase she isn't a super-close friend,and she hasn't been my friend for more than year, but I don't want to hurt her. I've begun to really like him, and i don't know what to do. I can't help smiling when I'm around him. please give me some advice!

[DeepDistress]

Stop being around him completely.

[EllaBella]

Originally Posted by DeepDistress

Stop being around him completely.

Ha, well that just seems too easy. I can't imagine this situation as anything other than complicated.

[Vampenstine]

Try and simplify it.

He's taken.
By your friend.
He's off-limits.

Try to keep your distance, if not, this will only end in tears.

[Walt]

Originally Posted by Vampenstine

Try and simplify it.

He's taken.
By your friend.
He's off-limits.

Try to keep your distance, if not, this will only end in tears.

what she said.

[FoodforYum]

Just picture him naked. WAIT that won't work! Picture him with a snowsuit on!

[Cadet]

^ Ummm...yeah that's helpful

He's not available. Plain and simple. Yes, it's more complicated than that, but the solution doesn't have to be. When you start thinking of him, think of something else. If you can avoid him, do so. If you guys hang out together, converse mainly with another friend. Try and see things you like in other guys. Basically, do your best to get over him. It's like a break up. It'll take time and your effort.

[Sunday's Fantasy]

Sit down for a while, take a deep breath and think about that.
If they are happy together, don't try to ruin their relationship. He's taken and trying to seduce him isn't the best way.
I know it's not easy to forget about him and look for some other one, but try to do it.

[Peyton Manning]

Don't talk to him if you can help it.

[MontrealRepresent]

You don't do anything