[Peyton Manning]

But sometimes she just annoys the living hell out of me.

See, she's quite stubborn and I'm quite...closed. As in I don't share feelings but she won't stop bugging me until I finally do open up. So it's kind of a loss-loss thing. Also, it doesn't help that I have issues with making decisions. Somedays I can open up, other days I can't and it confuses her.

Idk what to do. Advice?

[guitarguy1357]

Try just calmly explaining this to her instead of getting annoyed when she bugs you, i'd be confused if i was her, To be honest.

[Peyton Manning]

Originally Posted by guitarguy1357

Try just calmly explaining this to her instead of getting annoyed when she bugs you, i'd be confused if i was her, To be honest.

And It's understandable to an extent. I have tried explaining it to her. She doesn't get it.

[Lycos]

I find it kinda cute XD I mean, obviously y'all have different personalities and you're spoting one side of her that don't feel comfortable with but there must be much more stuffs that you love about her. For me the best is to talk to her, how does that makes you feel, over and over if necessary. Im quite closed myself so I know what you have to deal with.

[Peyton Manning]

Originally Posted by Winchester

I find it kinda cute XD I mean, obviously y'all have different personalities and you're spoting one side of her that don't feel comfortable with but there must be much more stuffs that you love about her. For me the best is to talk to her, how does that makes you feel, over and over if necessary. Im quite closed myself so I know what you have to deal with.

Yeah, she's just so stubborn. I can't get away with not telling her.

[Lycos]

persuade her and change the subject whenever you can

[Peyton Manning]

Originally Posted by Winchester

persuade her and change the subject whenever you can

lol

-her "How was your day? whats wrong?"

-me..."hungry?"

lmao

[Lycos]

lmao

-her "babe, there's something that's been bugging me lately..."
-me "yeah me too, we're almost runing out of ketchup :/"

[Peyton Manning]

Originally Posted by Winchester

lmao

-her "babe, there's something that's been bugging me lately..."
-me "yeah me too, we're almost runing out of ketchup :/"

lmao

=her "you having a bad day?"
=me "Yeah, my other girlfriend left me."

[DeepDistress]

Lol.

Id say just keep trying to explain to her and be firm at times, be like no i really don't want to talk about it it's nothing, it's just a mood. and if she doesn't let it go at times idk, you may have to live with a girl like that or leave her.
I understand she wants to help you and make you feel better, it kills me when i can't get my guy to open up... but i also understand at times you have to let them be themselves and more closed up. my ex and i were like this and it drove me crazy.. he was so clingy.. and i was so infatuated..oi..