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Old 04-04-12, 08:09 PM   #11
 
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Its not that we dislike them. They just get repetitive, you know? And if you want to keep ranting about them, that's fine. You're entitled to. But less and less people will respond until you just make one GIANT one about everything bugging you.

But, in regards to your post, I don't really care. People are stupid. End of.

yeah well my dads emotionally abusive, my mother is schizophrenic, my friends constantly ditch me, im heartbroken over my ex, i cant find a job, im inredibly sad and suicidal and lonely so i sometimes go on a teen forum for some advice and help every now and then since i dont have the money for a psychologist.

im TERRIBLY sorry my repetitive posts inconvenience you while you browse the internet looking to be entertained.

so if you dont mind me saying, shut the fuck up.




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Old 04-04-12, 08:21 PM   #12
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@deekay1217, please calm down and refrain from cursing other members of the site.

Although Jared was quite blunt, he was simply trying to explain why people can react the way that they do. He never said that your posts were an inconvenience. You are entitled to your own opinion, as is everyone else, but there's no reason to lash out at others.

As far as mean people go, you will find them everywhere. It's insanely annoying and inconvenient, but it's something that we all have to deal with, unfortunately. :( My advice would be to keep your head up and ignore these people. I know it's hard, though. Maybe focus on something that you enjoy to take your mind off of things?

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Normally people who act like a bully have an underlining cause. A need for power due to a lack of it at home, being abused or bullied themselves and they find relief in being the one dishing out the pain and so on. There's rarely no reason for why someone acts the way they do. They or everyone else may not know the reason right off the bat, but somewhere in the subconscious there's a reason. Is that an excuse? Sometimes, but a lot of the times no, since we have the ability to know right from wrong. But in a lot of cases people are just brought up to be that way, and they're conditioned to be nasty.




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Old 05-04-12, 05:53 AM   #14
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Sociopath? No .. not really ..

Puberty hits , and people have insecurities , They want to be better than others , they want to be "Approved" by their Circle of friends , they want to "Show off" to show not only to their self but to the people around them that they "Indeed" are cool and super worthly to be friends with .... Why? I will name that " Complex" ... and let you "guess" which one.

Social Issues , i would say . People Have a Social behaviour which allows them to follow everyone in order to be "Accepted" by society ... Most people have a "Social Behaviour" to show to those they dont trust ( Shield ) and the "Real one" they show to people they trust , and OTHERS just show only their Social one which tends to be the "Fake " one and the one they believe its their true self while it isnt , It is only a Self that applies the Requires of the Sociaty and the people you want to be accepted from


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My friend likes sports ..
ohh i like sports too ...

My friend now likes me ! <-

So , I bully and am mean to people
My friends will like me and think im super badass and worthly to be friends with


Sometimes , when we feel "Inferior" we want to Level our selves UP and Above the others by making them look " Lower" than us ...so we Discriminate , we mock and laugh at people so we can Think and believe we are better and above . Which is once again a "Complex" aka a psychological Issue.


its "their " problem , and to be honest with you ... I do have a social behaviour aswell , but "i know" i do ... im not letting it control me or shadow my true self . The people that are "Bullied" are what we can say " THE ONLY ORIGINAl" ...think about it? they just do what they feel like ( Dress as they like . and all that stuff without being control by sociaty )


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Chill out, man.

Loads of people are dicks and we all hate them. You'll find better people somewhere.
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I think its a personality disorder or something.
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Chances are, those people have a worse life then you. If you are that kind of person that purposely tries to break people down and pick random targets then something really fucked up has happened to you in a past, or is happening. Don't take what they say seriously because they are just taking their life problems out on you. I pity those people.
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