no period in dec.......need help ASAP!!!!!

[SweetAngel]

ok, so last month, i had no period. i got some spotting for like 2 days but not my period. i dnt think im pregnant. i mean, my bf and i had our clothes on and stuff. we were just making out.

another thing is that i am a virgin. my bf had rammed his fingers on my vagina really hard. (i had jeans on) and when i got home i saw some light pink in my underwear. is that ok? opr did my period try to start?

also...i just came home from college last month. i know sometimes ur period changes whenever u travel and stuff....is that it? Thanks!

[Jems]

Well, I don't know about travelling and stuff, but there is no way you can be pregnant.
FOr the light pink spot in your underwear it can be that you're boyfriend accidently hurt you with his nail, or, he broke your hymen. I don't think there is anythign to worry about,

[SweetAngel]

thank u! =]

[TellTheTruthNow]

Sounds like your just having an irregular period. That happens if you are stressed out, not eating, playing a lot of sports etc.. Since you're a virgin, you're obviously not pregnant. If you're super concerned then go to your doctor, though I doubt it will be anything.

I've never heard of a period stopping because of travel.. unless they got really stressed about traveling.

[mz.relativity]

The information above is good. Do listen to that. Stress, Dehydration and just general irregularity can be the cause of this. It usually takes about 5 - 8 years for periods to fully settle into a 28 day cycle. When your boyfriend "rammed his fingers", and there was pink, this was probably just the result of the force. light tear maybe?

If you're REALLY worried, go and talk to your GP (Doctor). They're good with this stuff

[GreenLady]

yeah, irregular period it is probably. i didn't have my period for 6 months, then i got some pills(birthcontrol) and it's great now.

and yeah, it can change because of traveling and stress, losing weight, it's lots of different things that can cause this.

[XcuriousX]

Periods aren't always on time unfortunately,, don't worry about that, but theres no way whatsoever that you are pregnant if your a virgin

[mz.relativity]

Unless you believe in the hole Virgin Mary giving birth to jesus thing.
I once didn't have my period for about 10 months. scared the crap out of me. i thought i was gonna die, but the doctor said its just cos i was new to the whole cycle. it will settle after a while.

[SweetAngel]

my period has always been irregular. i guess im just scared cuz around the time it was suppose to start i only got spotting. And my bf and i were meesing around but my clothes were still on. I guess its trying to come. ive been kinda nauseous and my stomach has been hurting some.

im a worrier...lol im just a little freaked out. =/

[mz.relativity]

Well that's one of the reason as to why your period isn't coming. Whenever you get REALLY stressed or worry or dwell on something, it's going to affect your regularity.