[TRUEMicah]

Not trying to sound like the bad guy but mayb u should also think about getting the baby DNA tested. It would b wrong to just leave and the baby was actually yours all the while.. Jus sayin..

Uhmm...? Hello? Anyone read my post? Sounds like a good idea, rite?

[drummer boy]

Originally Posted by Marietta

Wow, you're kind of a coward.
If this is the case then you obviously never really loved her.
At least not enough to help her when she needs it the most.

But in all honesty I think she needs someone stronger than you are.
However, she probably feels as though she's alone right now, save for you that is.
Leaving her could result in something bad.

Although, why not talk to her about adoption?

Although, I'm confused. You want to leave just because she's going to have a baby and yet you don't want to hurt her?
Wow, that's rich man, seriously.
If you leave she'll have no one to rely on afterward. That and it'll only tell her that you're a heartless asshole who obviously doesn't care for her enough to stay with her even after having a child.

You know, I had an uncle in the same position once.
Except his girlfriend never knew how she got pregnant, and by that I mean she was drunk and God only knows if it was rape or consented.
Anyway so my uncle finds out, she heartbroken beyond all reason but he stays with her anyway, marries her and just decides to tell everyone the kid is his.
Well that worked for about 20 years until he gets drunk at a wedding and tells everyone.

But because he loved my aunt so much, he also loved my cousin even though he had no biological reason to do so.

Point is, she needs someone right now.
And you're right, she'll probably do something stupid if you leave.

Although I'm rather conflicted on what advice to give you.
On one hand, she needs support but on the other I seriously doubt you could give her an adequate amount.
Also because loving her means for better or worse, lose isn't selfish and that's exactly what you are being.
Conditional love isn't love at all. Is what I'm getting at.

Although, if you want the best course of action I'd say go with your friends advice.
Stay with her and wait until you drift apart. Although, you never know what could happen then.


Also, not that this is relevant much but a heart attack at 18/19 is very unlikely.
Not impossible, but it sounds fishy to me.

Couldn't have said it better.

[WeaverOne]

Originally Posted by sandulf

unless she was still having her period, which is impossible
there is NO WAY you would have missed her behavioural changes after she was raped
Also... sidebar.... who dies of a heart attack at 18? It's a statistical improbability. Almost impossibility.
first of all havin your period while being pregnant is not impossble and you cant get pergnant while on IUD since it stops your periods, second not everyone displays any outward change after being raped, and thirdly heart attacks at 18 are rare bt not impossible as serious drug or alcohol use could cause them and also so the person could have suffered from a cardaiced infarction (i think thats what its called) which can strike at any age so all in all thechris your argument is seriously flawed and is very subjective for a social scientest so please what every you do dont go into self-help or counsling because yo would be shit at it

Wrong. Doctors are saying people at young ages are starting to get heart attacks. The man could have also overdosed been too big or unhealthy. Babies could have heart attacks so i'm pretty sure an 18 yr old could. Also don't leave her. Wait for the ******* baby talk to her then leave. Leaving during pregnancy is what's causes girls to go against us men and stereotype. Man the **** up and help her!

[Cassie]

not being mean but i would hate to have a boyfriend like you, when you get into a relationship you have to be there to help her and not leave as soon as something happens it aint her fault she got raped.