[Arjun]

hmm wen being married its like being slave before marriage you have sex( a kind of trap) after marriage only when wife desire to have sex, then you´ll have sex. That suck i have some friends who are got married and they told me that thats scary

[Jems]

I just don't see what mariage change. You shouldn't need a paper to say '' I love you'' in the first place.

[Antigone]

That's because marriage was created for the children originally.
Also for legal reasons.

It's not about love, per se, it's about being legally bound together for protection.
If something were to happen to one person then legally the spouse has the rights to property. If you are not married then the closest of kin gets the property.
As for the children, if one person were to just up and leave then if you're married you'll have more protected rights than you would if you were not married.
And if you don't have any children and are just living with your BF/GF then they can kick you out on your ass with nowhere to go. If you are married, however, then legally - they can't do that.
Unless of course you both pay income to pay for the house or whatever, in which case then legally the house belongs to both of you - so long as you both pay.
But with marriage, it belongs to the both of you either way.

Also there's the whole last-name thing.

My point is, marriage offers more protection in case something goes wrong.
The commitment behind this is that you love a person enough to legally share everything with them - which is a huge risk if one ends up leaving because then you'll both be out certain properties.

Then there are child rights and what not. More likely a woman can have full custody if they are not previously married. If they were married before and got a divorce then the father can have visitation rights unless the courts rule otherwise.

Or to put it more simply, women will get pregnant just was the sake of getting your money while not letting you see the kind - and yes it can and does happen.
If you were previously married though, well you get visitation rights. Also, as soon as she gets married again, you can always stop paying alimony - unless the court rules otherwise.

In short, marriage offers more rights and protection in cases of death, suicide, one leaves, and for the children.
Also, it offers more trust (at least depending on which POV you have).
There's an old saying... "Men are only free as bachelors, but women are never free until they are married."
Meaning, one of you is screwed either way, women will entrap you either way, so it's best to do what will protect you the most.


By the way, I'm simply explaining the technical aspects. Some people see marriage as a special thing, some don't.
Personally, I see it as something special and it offers more protection for myself in the future. That and I can share a list name with someone I love - and, yeah, for me it's that important. And I mean without having to go through the pain of getting it legally changed.

[rawr]

I thought you meant you didn't want a girlfriend/ wife or anything at all sorry bout that just me being stupid

[Jems]

Originally Posted by Marietta

That's because marriage was created for the children originally.
Also for legal reasons.

It's not about love, per se, it's about being legally bound together for protection.
If something were to happen to one person then legally the spouse has the rights to property. If you are not married then the closest of kin gets the property.
As for the children, if one person were to just up and leave then if you're married you'll have more protected rights than you would if you were not married.
And if you don't have any children and are just living with your BF/GF then they can kick you out on your ass with nowhere to go. If you are married, however, then legally - they can't do that.
Unless of course you both pay income to pay for the house or whatever, in which case then legally the house belongs to both of you - so long as you both pay.
But with marriage, it belongs to the both of you either way.

Also there's the whole last-name thing.

My point is, marriage offers more protection in case something goes wrong.
The commitment behind this is that you love a person enough to legally share everything with them - which is a huge risk if one ends up leaving because then you'll both be out certain properties.

Then there are child rights and what not. More likely a woman can have full custody if they are not previously married. If they were married before and got a divorce then the father can have visitation rights unless the courts rule otherwise.

Or to put it more simply, women will get pregnant just was the sake of getting your money while not letting you see the kind - and yes it can and does happen.
If you were previously married though, well you get visitation rights. Also, as soon as she gets married again, you can always stop paying alimony - unless the court rules otherwise.

In short, marriage offers more rights and protection in cases of death, suicide, one leaves, and for the children.
Also, it offers more trust (at least depending on which POV you have).
There's an old saying... "Men are only free as bachelors, but women are never free until they are married."
Meaning, one of you is screwed either way, women will entrap you either way, so it's best to do what will protect you the most.


By the way, I'm simply explaining the technical aspects. Some people see marriage as a special thing, some don't.
Personally, I see it as something special and it offers more protection for myself in the future. That and I can share a list name with someone I love - and, yeah, for me it's that important. And I mean without having to go through the pain of getting it legally changed.

I didn't read that. But I think if you trust your partner enough,, you shouldn't need marriage.

[Alex]

If you can't commit to a women or anyone for that fact, then you can't commit to a child. Being a father takes a big responsibility. You haft to feed, play, and take care of it 24/7. I guess love is the same way.

[Jems]

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[haylzbabes]

do you know hw rediculous you sound ur not good with commitment- what the hell do you think being a father is ????