[Paja]

My girlfriend/stepsis told me her days are really late and that she might be pragnant.

I did not now what to say.

She was like "I think i am pragnant"

I was like "WTF,ouoking, right?"

And she was like"No, my days are preaty late"

And i was like"Noooooooooooo"

And she was like "what the matter"
And i was like "Why me?! I am only 15 years old!"


I did not now what to say.So help out a little, please.

[Antigone]

First off, calm down.
You love her don't you? You gotta be there for her.

Why you? Uh, think about it - the answer will come.

Second of all, it's not confirmed yet. Just because she's late doesn't make her pregnant - I've been late on rare occasions and I've never even had sex.

So basically, unless she's been sneaking around behind your back - you're partially responsible for this and it's time to grow up and be a man.
No matter how much protection you use, there's always a chance in getting pregnant - it's the risk you take.
If she is pregnant then you both took it and the dice didn't land in your favor. Tough shit, step up and be a man already.

That's what you gotta do, stop belly-achin', wait to actually confirm she's pregnant (or not), if she is then you've got a lot of growing up to do in a short amount of time so prepare yourself.

Also, apologize for freaking out, this could be happy news for her after all.
Be cause really, if you're old enough to be mature enough to have sex then you're mature enough to handle the consequences you know could happen. Or at least you should be unless you totally disregard the consequences.


By the way, sorry if this post sounds rude, but really - you're kinda acting like a child yourself.

[OhLongJohnson]

Well... you had sex with her, that can usually lead to a baby. So I guess you're to blame too. It's not her fault love. You just needa be there for her. If you're not, you're a coward. This is your kid too. You can't run away from a problem. I think you should just comfort her. If she wants to have the baby i she is pregnant, back her up, or voice your opinion. But don't leave her.

[Tutorgirl]

Ok, your smiley thing made me laugh.

But anyway on a more serious note, firstly you dont know that she's pregnant, so you should wait to find out for sure before panicking.
Secondly, its probably a wake up call for you if she is not pregnant cause you will probably be more careful from then on.
And if she is pregnant, well dont walk out on her just because you can.
Your with her for a reason, because you guys like each other, she's gonna be going through so much more then you so you have to be there to support her with whatever happens.

[Paja]

Sex leads to a baby?
I always thought that a strok brings tham.No what do you say i leard something today.
Just joking.

Marietta you sead that its normal to have you days be late.But for 3 weeks!

[Antigone]

You never specified how many days she was late.
So, yeah, you got her pregnant dude.

Though, I have heard tell of girls being that late. Improbable but not impossible.
Though, usually I think in those cases that something's wrong with the ovaries or uterus.

Time to start to man-up, dude.

[Rogan]

Yeh, it's pretty likely that she's pregnant. Tell her to take a pregnancy test to make sure. It's possible to be that late but very probable that she is pregnant. At the moment, if she is pregnant, there's only one thing you have to do:

Don't walk out.

Be a man and stay with her. This baby is as much your responsibility as it is hers and leaving her because you're scared is cowardly. OK so you're going to be a Dad at 15 but it's something you have to deal with because this isn't going to go away. As time goes on, there's more you'll have to do, but right now, being there for her is what matters the most.

Good luck

[Paja]

She did the pregnancy test and it was negative.

But i am kind of a little dissepointed.

[Rogan]

If the test came back negative then maybe she needs to see a doctor. Being three weeks late without being pregnant sometimes means that something is wrong. If she's taking medication for anything, it could be that playing havoc with her hormones but I don't think it's something that should go ignored for too long.

[Paja]

We saw a doctor.He sead that nothing is wrong.
He sead that beeing 3 weeks late is not seen much but its not the first time he saw it.