[anonymous810]

Hi, well, im 15 and i might be pregnant. I've been with my boyfriend, who is 15 as well, for only 5 months, and as most teenagers do, we had sex, we used protection but unfortunately it broke. It's only been about two weeks but the fact that he did cum inside me scares me to death. We've talked about what we would do if i was in fact pregnant, i think the hardest part for me would be telling my parents. They are divorced. I live with my mom and she's never really given me "the talk" but she's hinted around about the importance of protection, but I don't think she knows that im even "sexually active." but she has made it clear to me that if I get pregnant at my age she would beat the sh** out of me, and i believe that, she's not a calm person and is very strict and extremely angry about everything so there is no way she would take the news easily. i know my mom would either kick me out, beat, or disown me. I dont know what to do or how to tell them. Please Help. Thank you.

[peter]

Well theres a posability you might not be pregnant. I suggest you go to a pharmacy and purchase a pregancy test and if it says ur positive then write that your pregnant with a msg sayen how you feel and such and give that paper to your mom then lock yourself in your room and if you hear yellen dont open the door, just wait till she cools down

Also she cant hurt you if you pregnant and if she disowns u then it shows how good of a mother she rilly is.

Also if you need someone to talk to im here.

~Peter

[Lemanstom]

First you need to find out if your definantly pregnant and if you are you'll need to tell your
parents, explain that you used a condom but it broke. If she any violence occurs you need
to run for it as violence may affect the baby. if your mother disowns you you should go to
your boyfriends.

[Rogan]

It's important that you find out for certain whether you're pregnant or not. Buy 2 tests and take them a couple of days apart. If they say you're pregnant then you need to think about your parents as soon as possible. Don't keep putting until they suspect something or they hear it from someone else. If your Mum is likely to kick off, maybe you could tell your Dad first. That way, if he's calmer and more supportive about it, he'll be able to advise you about how to best go about telling her.

She might just be saying those things to make sure you don't get pregnant but if she is violent, then perhaps living there when you're pregnant isn't a good idea. Maybe you could stay with your Dad or your boyfriend but don't start making plans or anything until after you've told her.

[virgoc'x]

I'm not here to judge, but surely realising the condom had split you should have taken the emergency after pill?
This works up to 72 hours after you have had sex which gave you enough time, however you musn't of been thinking straight.

You do not know whether your pregnant yet, and To be honest you wont till quite a later date, do as people have advised and take the pregnancy tests, and you and your boyfriend come to some sort of decision, if you are thinking of a termination and you think your mother will turn violent then maybe you and your boyfriend could keep it yourself, and move on with your life, this may not seem like the most sensible option, keeping it from your mother, but surely this would settle the matter without parents having to be informed or any respect lost from your mother.


In future be more careful,
good luck with what ever happens
-Chelsea,

[Paja]

1.Find out if your pragnant or not.
2.If you are pragnant try to writh a letter or SMS about that you used protection but it broke.
3.If you now that she might use violence try hiding by your boyfriend and wait until she calms down.
4.If she dose something idiotic like beating you down or disowns you or kicks you out.Than call the cops and report.If she is your mother she should be by your site and support you and not beat the shit out of you, or even worse.

[Doniv Darker]

Well there isnt any more advice, except that, be careful for false positives in pregnancy tests, Juno the movie would actually be a good guide, but seeing tht ur mom is too violent, u should crash in with ur dad.. cheers

[pinkjeans]

Originally Posted by Doniv

Well there isnt any more advice, except that, be careful for false positives in pregnancy tests, Juno the movie would actually be a good guide, but seeing tht ur mom is too violent, u should crash in with ur dad.. cheers

what sort of test are these?? you can get evaps where on the test the line is grey and really skinny but never false positives...but assume evap is what you meant

take it from me hun best mature thing to do is sit down with your mum, with or without your boyfriend there, and state calmly that your pregnant and you were using protection but the condom spilt (btw?! make sure your bf is putting it on properly that shouldnt have happened)

then run if she turns violent

unfortuneatly as its only been 2 weeks since it happened youl probs have to wait til your periods due or another two-three weeks before a test will come up acurate.

good luck and mail me if you need anything been through ithree times 16 and 17 x

[teenmommy101]

when i finf out i was prego i was only 17 but i was affried to tell my dad but when i told him he was pk with it...upset alittle but know it was coming...you shouldnt b wrryed its not to bad trust me.. but i am sure your mom would b mad but not beat or disown u..

[Doniv Darker]

yea