[BlackAngel]

Okay guys. Well i've took 5 tests so i'm sure i am pregnant and i have added up the date i conceived so i know that i am 7 weeks and 4 days pregnant. My mom kicked me out, and i have been living with my boyfriends family. I work part-time, and i'm home-schooled and studying for my GED so i can get it next year. The problem is Jamie ( my bf) family is not being supportive, and i cannot go to my mom cause she has never been there for me through anything anyways. So i'm so lost. I know i need to get to a doctor's appointment so i can make sure the baby is healthy but with people being not so supportive, i'm not sure where to turn in this situation.

[Caer]

Well really, you don't even have a high school education so a stable, decent job bringing in enough money to pay the bills and have a good financial cushion for emergency purposes is out of the question, so I don't recommend keeping it; Especially if you have no familiar support from yours or your boyfriend's families.


If you don't like the idea of abortion, go with adoption.
I was in your situation though..well, similar.
My fiance and I were living with my brother and his girlfriend and STILL having to pay 600+/month just for rent when I got pregnant. We both had college educations but no jobs in our field and the jobs we had were barely paying the bills.

We had an abortion and while it was a hard decision, it was the best one we could have made at the time and we can always have children later on when we're ready, and so can you.

[Violet Surrender]

I agree with Shonna 100% and I was in a similar situation.... Except my boyfriend was the only one paying the bills and we couldn't afford the abortion so I put her up for adoption.

In some states or some doctor's offices, I believe prenatal care is free..? Call your doctor and ask, and if it's not, submit an application for Medicaid. The fact that you're pregnant will most likely get you approved and then if doctor's visits aren't free, they will be very cheap at least.

Although without anyone supporting you and no place to live without the support of someone, I don't see how you could go through the pregnancy too much..
Is your boyfriend not supportive of YOU or is it that fact you're pregnant? Does he want you to get an abortion?

[Charlotte111]

Well ask yourself these questions.

Can I support a baby right now ?

Do I have the money for a baby ?

Would I be able to cope with this alone ?


Is your bf supportive tho ? you say his family aren't but is he, what's his view on the sitaution.

sit down and have a talk with him about all those things.

if you can support a baby than good luck

but if you can't there's always abortion or adoption

feel free to PM me if you need any help

hope this helped