[amandagarnett]

well i have this constant feeling as if i am pregnant, its as if im bloated 24/7, im having trouble sleeping but sometimes i just want to sleep all the time. i get cramp alot, and have to urinate more often, ive had a few dizzy spells and only been sick once. will have to wait and see if i get my period which is due in a few days time.

[Charlotte111]

You came on saying you wanted to get pregnant yes ?

This could be your mind playing tricks on you.

Take a test as soon as you can.

Btw how old is the guy/boyfreind your with? It's quite important we no this as your only 15.

[Arcanum]

Have you had sexual intercourse recently?

Have you used protection if you had sexual relationships?

[amandagarnett]

yes i did say i want to get preganant, i spoke to a person that deals with pregnancy and she told me to do a test if i miss my period so i will do that.

yes i have, and i used to be on the pill, but dont use any contraception now.

[amandagarnett]

oh and he is the same age as me, 15

[Charlotte111]

Why are you trying to get pregnant at 15 ? I was pregnant at 16 and had an abortion.

Your young live your life first.

Age phew your alright then just was alittle worried about the english law side of it

[amandagarnett]

its what we both want,

[Charlotte111]

Yes but my question is why do you want a baby ?

What reasons do you have to want a baby ?

what has given you this need to have a baby ?

Do you want to go on and get a job to support your baby ? if so either your boyfreind or family would be looking after your baby.

You need a job to pay for a baby if you have a baby and don't have your family to look after him/her you don't have any money.

Can you imagine it's 4am the baby is screaming your tired and you have work in the moring can you cope ? I couldn't and I'm nearly two years older

[amandagarnett]

we both have jobs to provide money.. both our familys would be more than willing to support us so on that matter it wouldnt be a problem.
and yes i would be able to cope, its just one of the things i would have to adjust to

[Charlotte111]

Do you understand just how much a baby costs every week ? there are grown adults that can't afford a baby with their job as I said before your 15 whatever job you have can't pay much.

Yes your family may be willing but I'm sorry to say they will be disappointed my mum was very disappointed she would have supported me yes but she was really disappointed

Please if your not pregnant get back on the pill use condoms and have fun your young you have your whole life ahead of you.

I have atleast four friends that got pregnant young and their not with the baby's father , no it doesn't happened with everyone but most it does.

I might be coming across rude here but I felt the same way as you afew months ago I no what your feeling trust me.I'm just telling you what other people will sooner or later.