[Emzyxo]

I'm 19 and 30 weeks pregnant. It was unplanned and we were using protection.
When i found out i was pregnant, i was shocked, but happy and i didn't even have to think about my options, i wanted to keep it.
But i'm really panicking now, im too young and selfish to have a baby, i love dress shopping and going out at the weekend. And i'm thinking i wont be able to do that anymore.
I sometimes even wish i'd had an abortion which i know isnt a nice thing to consider :( i've also thought about adoption, but i don't think i'd be able to go throught with it.
I feel as if i wont be able to live life anymore, and its depressing me.
I have amazing family support and wonderful fiancee.

The thing is, i only think this when im on my own, but when im with my fiancee i think that this baby is going to be the best thing thats ever happened to us. I am in love with this baby, but i feel as if all our money is going to go on the baby and we wont have a life.

Please help :/

[Sam1]

Emma, the train of second thoughts has left the station here....the issue is really for you to prepare yourself for the awesome responsibility you and he now face. You've got the time to start that, you should begin that process. Work with him and your families to make preparations so that you're in a better place in your head with this than you now are.

[Ironfist]

Your life is now about your child and not you. I can't say I understand that kind of responsibility but you can't try your best, you have to do your best. It wasn't your fault but shit happens and now this kid is your job.

[peeny]

Hey i would suggest u It's multiple choice for people who have had more than 1 pregnancy where the decision to terminate, adopt or keep the baby would come into play.Sometimes when things get really tough I wonder what made me think I was capable of doing this, but all in all we have a great bond and I don't know how I'd survive without her so am happy with the choice to raise the child rather than adopt her out.
so now its ur choice.......

[David-]

Please do not bump old threads, thanks.

David