[alloptionsopened1]

I kept it.

[Sam1]

OMG, you poor thing.

Listen, I just hate it so much when people come here with real life trauma and get lectures from those whose only qualification is their own survival and sense of self righteousness Shame! When you guys get out there and master the real world, then you can sit in judgment of others less fortunate then yourselves....

Listen, you go to Planned Parenthood and talk with a counselor there. Your situation is so serious, your disorder is so awful that you get a pass on this one.

Go....

[Tiffany]

a thought.. you said you go by being male, many guys wear big baggy clothes. maybe you could do that and hide it as best you can throughout the remainder of the pregnancy.

it's a tough situation to go through, something i don't think anyone on this forum could relate to, but please post on here anytime you need advice or just to vent without being afraid of what others will say.

do you have any friends who know about the situation to give you support?

[alloptionsopened1]

no I'm alone. My friend I said something bout it he has tried to help with getting an abortion. We don't have enough money a way I could get away from home for are days. I considered a home abortion but regarding my anatomy that would be difficult. I'm 20 weeks and still skinny so if it goes that way a while hopefully I can take tht advice and not get caught.

[Tiffany]

please don't ever try a home abortion for many reasons, you could really hurt or even kill yourself. are you seeing a doctor at all?

have you tried googling about others with CAH and dealing with pregnancy? i'm sure many of them are facing issues similar to yours.

[alloptionsopened1]

I know I'm not doing any of those things anymore I just was considering it. Now I'm pretty much stuck with hiding it.....

[greencheese]

CAH is Congenital Adrenal Hyperplasia and it is a disorder of the adrenal gland.

Typically women who are born with CAH are born with a vagina and have some characteristic male genitalia. Most health care providers will do surgery to remove the genitalia. It is extremely difficult to become pregnant with CAH unless you are medicated, because CAH causes irregular periods.

Men who are born with CAH hit puberty during their 2nd and 3rd years of life. These men are still able to produce sperm. Men are typically born with a penis, that appears to be an oversized clitoris.

In case anyone wanted to know.

Kudos to you OP for deciding what you want to do! Best of luck to you!