[Kryptonite]

So I have this friend who recently got out of a rough relationship that was full of some interesting situations.. After they broke up she found out she was pregnant, but then had a miscarriage a few days later. Her ex-boyfriend still doesn't know. We just started talking about it, and I think she ought to tell him at some point because he has the right to know. However, she doesn't want to tell him because she thinks it would upset him. Comments, stories, examples- anything would be helpful. This really isn't my forte, to tell you the truth.

[DeepDistress]

She needs to bloody tell him, simple as that. He has the right to know he was going to be a father but something tragic happened, will it hurt, yes. But at least he would know he did make a little miracle.

[cheshire]

Yeah, i agree. He ought to know she was having his child in her. A little life. Fragile yet amazing..

[JP.yeah.man]

she has an obligation to tell him..
he was the father after all!-
the longer she waits to tell him.. the harder it will get.
it may hurt him..but he has the right to know.
PLUS! if he is told about the miscarriage- she will then have someone who she can talk to about her feelings-and they can grieve together, it may also make their relationship/bond stonger..
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