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Teen Pregnancy and Childcare ForumDiscuss teen pregnancy, childcare, teens trying to conceive, ovulation, fertility charting, giving birth and seek all related help and advice.
I am 20 weeks pregnant. I couldn't get a place to get an abortion. I'm still not showing. I haven't told anyone. I'm thinking of just leaving it at the hospital. I'm already going under a different name in a different town. I don't know I keep thinking I lost it though....
Listen, I just hate it so much when people come here with real life trauma and get lectures from those whose only qualification is their own survival and sense of self righteousness Shame! When you guys get out there and master the real world, then you can sit in judgment of others less fortunate then yourselves....
Listen, you go to Planned Parenthood and talk with a counselor there. Your situation is so serious, your disorder is so awful that you get a pass on this one.
Well just look into adoption opinions, start ahead of time that way a couple may be able to get the baby the day it's born, and look forward to having a baby
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
read my last post duhhh. I'm not a girl. You made a whole fuss over it last month remember.
I can't go to the agency without having much care. I can't know what is going on if I'll have anything out of this.
She's just trying to help.. Get off her back. Take the mother and look for adoption options, or, if you so feel it, get an abortion. However, I'd go for adoption if the mother is willing.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
You can leave the baby at the hospital or a police or fire station, no questions asked. They would rather people leave a baby there than abandon it outside, in a dumpster, or abuse it.
But the better thing to do would be to go to an adoption agency so the child has a better chance than possibly group home foster care of some sort. At 20 weeks you should feel the baby kicking. Drink something really sugary, lay down for an hour, see if you can feel any movement. Poke at your stomach to try and get him moving too. Of course the best way to find out would be to go to a hospital/doctor/etc.
I am the mother. I have cah. I'm bisexual and ended up pregnant because I have cah. So I'm an intersex male. I'm still pregnant I took the test. I can't get an abortion. I was trying to obtain one at 14 weeks I was too far along in this state. I just have been ignoring it lately. I'm still skinny. I don't want to consult an agency if it's dead. Plus I'd rather not be documented as the mother.
Last edited by alloptionsopened1; 18-07-11 at 09:22 PM..
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