[nathanielmommy16]

.im only 15 been thru 2 pregnancies..i lost my son at 20 weeks he was healtyh in my womb..i lost him 2 PROM..it hurts so bad because he was all the hope i had all that i lived for..i know im young but love is love so please dont judge..i pushed him out i felt him touch my leg i heard him gasp 4 air and i couldnt do anything to help him..i lost him AUGUST16,2011and want to try again to get him back...am i wrong for wanting another? am i wrong to try to feel a void into my heart?

REST IN PEACE
NATHANIEL
mommy and daddy love you so much

[DeepDistress]

Yes, your wrong.
What you went through was horrible but you should take that as a sign that 15 year old bodies aren't ready to have children, nor mentally. You cannot take care of this child your planning on properly. You should step up and take care of it and put your life aside if you do get pregnant cause it was your fault for having sex, but you shouldn't purposely try for it.


Stop having sex, your 15.

[nathanielmommy16]

i know having sex is wrong...but i was ready 4 him...i was gonna still stay in school...my bf has a job nd my mom was gonna help support him

[Vertigo]

Thats great and all but you are 15... Thats my age. I could not imagine having a kid, supporting a kid, or asking my family to help me support a kid. I'm very, very, VERY, sorry for your loss- but its time to cut those losses and stop trying to have a baby- and if you are going to have sex, use PROTECTION.

[DeepDistress]

You think that's all you need to be a mother...? Hell no. You think you can stay in school when you'll be getting up every hr of the night to feed and change him? You think that your boyfriends one job will support a child? no. You're not ready, you know it's wrong, stop before it happens to you again. Take a long hard look at your age.

[nathanielmommy16]

ok i know my age..but srry u really cant judge me b cuz u dont know me..not tryna be rude..you dont know what i go thru

[Vertigo]

Ok, so even if your age is thrown out, and now reading your other thread: Why the hell would you want to procreate with this guy? Risk another smidge of heartbreak due to losing a baby, and then this guy flaking on you?

Use your head, not your heart and pain, as a guide.

[nathanielmommy16]

ur ture..its just crazy how he dont realize all the good ive done 4 him nd wat i get back a smack in the face....its just hard b cuz i love him so much...he say he loves me deeply 2

[DeepDistress]

I know age can be different, how you seem much older, i honestly do and i struggled wit the same thing when i was that age, however, i know a lot about children and how hard it is and even the most mature 30 year old's it's hard for.

[Neverland]

Okay, I honestly think you need to think about what you're doing.
You're 15, I'm 15 and right now babies shouldn't be on the list.
Being mature isn't about doing everything an adult does, you don't seem at all that mature to me since you lack understanding of how serious this is and why you shouldn't be doing it.

You're too young to have a child. You're not married, you have no job, you haven't finished school and you need to be emotionally and mentally ready for a baby. We're still children ourselves and you're trying to grow up too quickly.
It doesn't matter if you feel you're ready for sex either, assuming you live in the UK it's illegal until you're 16.

And it's true we don't know you and what you go through, but you're asking for the advice. You wouldn't go through all this pain if you acted your age. Nobody should have to deal with the loss of a baby this young, it must be hard ,I'm sure, and I sympathize but you got yourself into the mess, you can get yourself out by saying goodbye to the guy who didn't think about using protection, finish school, get a steady income after you finish and then you'll be ready to meet a guy worthy of having a child with.

That's my advice, feel free to disagree but I'm sure many others would agree with me.