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.im only 15 been thru 2 pregnancies..i lost my son at 20 weeks he was healtyh in my womb..i lost him 2 PROM..it hurts so bad because he was all the hope i had all that i lived for..i know im young but love is love so please dont judge..i pushed him out i felt him touch my leg i heard him gasp 4 air and i couldnt do anything to help him..i lost him AUGUST16,2011and want to try again to get him back...am i wrong for wanting another? am i wrong to try to feel a void into my heart?
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NATHANIEL
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Yes, your wrong.
What you went through was horrible but you should take that as a sign that 15 year old bodies aren't ready to have children, nor mentally. You cannot take care of this child your planning on properly. You should step up and take care of it and put your life aside if you do get pregnant cause it was your fault for having sex, but you shouldn't purposely try for it.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
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Thats great and all but you are 15... Thats my age. I could not imagine having a kid, supporting a kid, or asking my family to help me support a kid. I'm very, very, VERY, sorry for your loss- but its time to cut those losses and stop trying to have a baby- and if you are going to have sex, use PROTECTION.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
You think that's all you need to be a mother...? Hell no. You think you can stay in school when you'll be getting up every hr of the night to feed and change him? You think that your boyfriends one job will support a child? no. You're not ready, you know it's wrong, stop before it happens to you again. Take a long hard look at your age.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Ok, so even if your age is thrown out, and now reading your other thread: Why the hell would you want to procreate with this guy? Risk another smidge of heartbreak due to losing a baby, and then this guy flaking on you?
Use your head, not your heart and pain, as a guide.
"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot
ur ture..its just crazy how he dont realize all the good ive done 4 him nd wat i get back a smack in the face....its just hard b cuz i love him so much...he say he loves me deeply 2
I know age can be different, how you seem much older, i honestly do and i struggled wit the same thing when i was that age, however, i know a lot about children and how hard it is and even the most mature 30 year old's it's hard for.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Okay, I honestly think you need to think about what you're doing.
You're 15, I'm 15 and right now babies shouldn't be on the list.
Being mature isn't about doing everything an adult does, you don't seem at all that mature to me since you lack understanding of how serious this is and why you shouldn't be doing it.
You're too young to have a child. You're not married, you have no job, you haven't finished school and you need to be emotionally and mentally ready for a baby. We're still children ourselves and you're trying to grow up too quickly.
It doesn't matter if you feel you're ready for sex either, assuming you live in the UK it's illegal until you're 16.
And it's true we don't know you and what you go through, but you're asking for the advice. You wouldn't go through all this pain if you acted your age. Nobody should have to deal with the loss of a baby this young, it must be hard ,I'm sure, and I sympathize but you got yourself into the mess, you can get yourself out by saying goodbye to the guy who didn't think about using protection, finish school, get a steady income after you finish and then you'll be ready to meet a guy worthy of having a child with.
That's my advice, feel free to disagree but I'm sure many others would agree with me.
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