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Teen Pregnancy and Childcare ForumDiscuss teen pregnancy, childcare, teens trying to conceive, ovulation, fertility charting, giving birth and seek all related help and advice.
@Tschmuh Its quite obvious that you don't agree with teen pregnancy but just tone it down a little. We have no idea about Ashleii's life and its not nice to jump to conclusions about certain details quite so quickly.
@Ashleii15 I wish you all the best and I really admire your attitude to the great responsibility you will be taking on
Baby is this love for real?
Let me in your arms to feel,
the beating of your heart baby...
Yes it will be hard for both her and the child, but it's not impossible and it's far more admirable of her to keep the child and take responsibility for her actions and show the child love and a good life no matter how hard life is, THAT is what will turn this child into a decent person through all these hardships. For a person to be decent and be a smart and admirable person, not everything can be handed them easily. A tough life is what makes a person stronger, and that's what she, her child, and maybe her boyfriend will go through in life, it will make her and her child have a close strong bond, Yes, life will be tough but that doesn't mean it's a life not worth living. She has parents to help her out, and yes, so her child will have a strong bond with the child, should she just give the baby up or abort it because she's scared the child will love the grandmother more then her? pathetic.. Yes, she has to think realistically, and positively. Which I'm sure she's probably done, and I'm sure her mother is have spoken to her too. It will be hard and she's not denying that, yes, she's happy, she's excited, she should be she's having a child, she doesn't need to freak out now about how hard it will be, she will take it step by step with the help of the loved ones, being negative and how hard it will be will not help her any, her grades will decrease, etc. She's being smart, and sounds like a decent person, yes shes so young and it's going to be hard and it's not ideal, but she has help from her mother, and she has the right look on it, you don't need money or things or an easy life to be happy. Yes, she shouldn't bum off her mom, she will be going to school and getting a job and etc, so she's not just sitting on her ass, if her mom is willing to help then great, it really is. This strong and supporting family life will make that child's life better then any materialistic things could.
"Yes, life will be tough but that doesn't mean it's a life not worth living."
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
Christian, Cut it out. You're being far more immature then she is, and your two years older.
She's being positive and making a bad situation the best it can be, Crystal already warned you, just stop you don't need to be doing this.
It's not like it's just a 14 year old raising the child, her mother is willing to help so there's a strong, grown, experienced figure in the picture helping out. So stop.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
I dont really know whats wrong.
i dont even started to be rough.
this is a public forum wich should be used to discuss the topic and if someones can not handle bad news or different opinons he should not be here.
but okay, i dont want to be the asshole so i stop it. -. -
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"Ihr wollt meinen Schatz? Den könnt ihr haben! Sucht ihn doch! Irgendwo hab ich den größten Schatz der Welt versteckt!"
I dont really know whats wrong.
i dont even started to be rough.
this is a public forum wich should be used to discuss the topic and if someones can not handle bad news or different opinons he should not be here.
but okay, i dont want to be the asshole so i stop it. -. -
ah btw: thinking just of the positiv aspects is not a thing of mature...
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"Ihr wollt meinen Schatz? Den könnt ihr haben! Sucht ihn doch! Irgendwo hab ich den größten Schatz der Welt versteckt!"
15 is very young to have a child in my opinion but it is your decision.
A question, did you and your boyfriend wanted a child yes or no? Im not being mean or anything.
Plus 28 weeks is too late to have an abortion anyways. Although if you are not prepared to have a kid there is always adoption program that are available you know.
Although I wish you good luck in what you will be doing
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