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Ok well me and my gf were being 'naughty' on wednesday. i was fingering her and she would give me a hand for few sec once in a while and then i decided to rub my dick on her vagina.. Now my gf thinks i pre cummed while i was rubbin my dick on her vagina and shes worried shes pregnant.. and so am i ..... her period is due monday and she says shes beginning to get craps ( she doesn't usually get craps before her period) , her stomach is bloated and she feels hungry.. Now.. ughh.. idk why im writing this but perhaps for advice on what if shes actually pregnant.. ( God forbid ) I really dont want a baby at this age ( im 15 and shes 14) as it wasnt planned .. What should i do :((((( am soo scared ;////
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Implantation cramps happen a week after. Wednesday isn't a week after
Bloating is common among any menstruation, so it's just a symptom of her period.
And hunger? Hunger happens during the second trimester, and if she was pregnant you would obviously start off at the FIRST trimester.
The only way to be sure is to see if she misses her period.
I hope you learn something from this experience bro, because that's a seriously retarded thing to do, put your dick near a girl's pussy without protection is probably the STUPIDEST thing you can do at your age.
Learn from this mistake; you should always use condoms.
Though, chances are it should be okay - if you didn't penetrate, that is. It's to early to make a pregnancy test anyway. And period pain always varies.
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Implantation cramps happen a week after. Wednesday isn't a week after
Bloating is common among any menstruation, so it's just a symptom of her period.
And hunger? Hunger happens during the second trimester, and if she was pregnant you would obviously start off at the FIRST trimester.
The only way to be sure is to see if she misses her period.
I hope you learn something from this experience bro, because that's a seriously retarded thing to do, put your dick near a girl's pussy without protection is probably the STUPIDEST thing you can do at your age.
I kno its the stupidest thing.. i got carried away .. and i sure have learned a lesson ;////
Thanks for reply.
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First of all, Try not to worry too much about it. The chance that she is pregnant is really really low. Especially if it was just precum. Worrying won't solve anything and all it really does is make you feel worse. So relax for now. I don't think there's sufficient evidence to suspect a pregnancy in the first place.
If she is pregnant, you have to discuss with her what you want to do with the baby. Either way, you have to accept responsibility for the consequences of your actions. But you both need to work together to find the best way to deal with it. I would encourage you to talk to your parents about it with her IF she is pregnant (which I doubt).
I think she's not pregnant. That's not as easy to do as it seems to be... Just calm down and don't panic. Her period is late cause she's scared I suppose. Btw. 14 years old girl's period is not as regular as it should to be. Maybe that's the reason as well.
And be more careful next time...
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If you're concerned - wait a while. Make sure she is on a form of birth control or something if you ever decide to have sex. I know you didn't penetrate inside her, but it's very unlikely.
First of all, Try not to worry too much about it. The chance that she is pregnant is really really low. Especially if it was just precum. Worrying won't solve anything and all it really does is make you feel worse. So relax for now. I don't think there's sufficient evidence to suspect a pregnancy in the first place.
If she is pregnant, you have to discuss with her what you want to do with the baby. Either way, you have to accept responsibility for the consequences of your actions. But you both need to work together to find the best way to deal with it. I would encourage you to talk to your parents about it with her IF she is pregnant (which I doubt).
I am trying not to but she keeps bringing it up.. I told her to chill and not think about it and wait for her period..
Thanks for the reply.
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you wouldnt know this early if she was pregnant. like you said, it was on wednesday. but i highly doubt that she could become pregnant. if you didnt have sex, then i highly doubt it. and yes, precum does carry sperm, but not a lot.
i think that you both are worrying too much about it and all this could be in her head. and that she is worrying about it too much.
if she misses her period, it could be due to stress and worrying too much. if she misses her whole period, not next week, but the week after, have her take a pregnancy test, if you are that worried.
you wouldnt know this early if she was pregnant. like you said, it was on wednesday. but i highly doubt that she could become pregnant. if you didnt have sex, then i highly doubt it. and yes, precum does carry sperm, but not a lot.
i think that you both are worrying too much about it and all this could be in her head. and that she is worrying about it too much.
if she misses her period, it could be due to stress and worrying too much. if she misses her whole period, not next week, but the week after, have her take a pregnancy test, if you are that worried.
Alright ill talk to her and tell her to calm down. Shes the one making me worried as she brings it up ;/
Thanks for the reply.
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