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Teen Pregnancy and Childcare ForumDiscuss teen pregnancy, childcare, teens trying to conceive, ovulation, fertility charting, giving birth and seek all related help and advice.
Alright so me and my girlfriend tried sex just to see how it was like on Friday. I told her I'd take it slow and I did. I was no where near finishing and she was tipping the edge. Both of us still having our v-cards. We used 3 condoms because I didn't want her paranoid and after like 3 minuets of slow stroking I'd always check it for rips. Always. And I called it off after about 30 min. She left home and I finished like 25 min later on my own. (She had to go) 1 day later she wants to try it again and then we stop so like a boyfriend I agreed. We tried it again this time a little more intament but I still want getting crazy because I didn't want her paranoid. So we used 2 condoms and I always checked for rips in the condom never fully consuming my penis in her vagina. I called it off again when she pretty much peaked 20 mins in. Her vagina was secreting white stuff but it was hers because once again I didn't finish and it was not thick enough or didn't have that weird smell. I finish like 20 mins at my house. It's Tuesday and we just talked and shes super panicking about being preggo. I ensure her that we did everything possible to be safe expect take the pill but like a first timer shes killing her self over the thought. She got her period like 2 weeks ago so it's going to kill her for another 2 weeks till she gets her period. I'm a very smart teen (17 shes 16) and I tell her everything and have legitimate reasons to not worry. Even if she was preggo like the man I am I'll own up to it and care for it or come to a decision. I just need someone on the internet or someone with a story like mine to soften up the situation. Or give me your points of view. I need helpp!
You need a lot more sex ed.
Using multiple condoms at once is NOT being safe. its less effective than using one. Only use one condom at a time, ever.
If you don't want a baby, you both need to learn about and get on more effective birth controls. Like you said, unfortunately you won't know anything for another two weeks.
The above user is right. You need much more sex education, both of you.
It is unlikely that she is pregnant because you didn't do much. But, you used more than one condom. That's worse than using one condom. It's not safe at all, not to mention it's much more unconfortable.
I think you both need to investigate about it and learn how things truly are. It is unlikely she is pregnant, and there's nothing you can do to make her mind rest. There is only one solution: Wait. Only time will tell if she is pregnant or not. If her period is late, take a pregnancy test.
About the sex itself, well. Learn more about it. Use only one condom and know what to expect. Also, if she wants to have sex, she needs to stop being paranoid aswell or else neither of you will actually enjoy it.
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Oh course seeing as you didn't finish inside her there is a slim to none chance that she is indeed pregnant, but i assure you wierder things in life have happened. I agree with the above posters that building a wall with a whole box of condoms is not recommended, just use one. Also if you were that paranoid wouldn't you use another form of birth control? say the pill or something along those lines.
As everyone above has said, there is very little chance of her being pregnant. As you did not ejaculate then there will be little cum inside her, if any escaped at all. The best thing to do now is to wait and see if her period comes but remember they do not happen on the same day each month so be patient.
Also next time you have sex ask you gf to go on the pill so there is less of a chance of her being pregnant. If something does go wrong then use the morning after pill but remember it can only be effective up to 72 hours after sex and can only be used a few times.
Hello all, I am Elliot, I am 17 years old
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