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Teen Pregnancy and Childcare ForumDiscuss teen pregnancy, childcare, teens trying to conceive, ovulation, fertility charting, giving birth and seek all related help and advice.
im 15 years old and i think im pregant...i am already 2-3 days late on my period and idn what to do...i dont wanna tell my parents bc i know they will freak out on me...both mom and dad they are both very strick and i dont want them angry at me...ik it was wrong...and the guy i had sex with tells me that if i am he wants me to get an abortion but i dont know...i dont wanna kill it...its not its fault so y should i kill it? idn what to do...anybody plz help me and give me advice
If YOU don't want to kill it don't, and don't let people talk you into it. It's your child, you will regret doing what you don't want to do.. it's a life, not something stupid and little it's something you can really regret.
Take a test though, find out before you freak out.
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Untill around the 2second trimester it is okay to abort that is when it won't feel pain, if you arent ready and or don't want to be a mother that don't be
If YOU don't want to kill it don't, and don't let people talk you into it. It's your child, you will regret doing what you don't want to do.. it's a life, not something stupid and little it's something you can really regret.
Take a test though, find out before you freak out.
yeahh ik i dont wanna kill it....its my fault and it will be my responcibility...but idn what my parents would say if i am...i will NOT get an abortion bc im not gonna kill it...
well, the first thing to do is take a pregnancy test. there are other reasons you may be missing your period (stress is a big factor also). but yes, do a test. and take it from there.
if you dont want the baby, then there is always adoption.
Well firstly, just calm down and take a pregnancy test before you start worrying too much about this. Nothing's certain yet.
Secondly, if you think you can handle it and support the child in every way possible then sure, keep it. If not, then don't. It can only be your decision so make sure you've thought it out and spoken about it to your parents before you go ahead with something.
@aubrin Actually that's not true, by 8 weeks their lips are sensitive to the touch. And that's just their lips.. There was also a woman who had an abortion before the third trimester which was using salt water or something and she felt the baby trash around for awhile...
Now, this is harsh and I'm not trying to tell the OP what to do but she at least needs to understand that these things are possible.
Also just get a test tomorrow, see what it says and PM me or something, we'll talk. Also talk to brokendreams, shes really good at this.
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If you are pregnant then you will have to tell your parents. If your parents love you, they'll support you through whatever you're going through, despite what they're original reaction might be.
Like others said, take a test before you stress! It's not good for you to be freaking out until you know, but maybe it will come as a lesson to you. Keep us updated!
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