[XxxxmrscxxxX]

hey so im only 17 and most people would think getting pregnant now would be crazy but for me its all iv ever wanted, is any1 else in the same boat as me or has had a miscarriage and would want to chat?

[DeepDistress]

Are you with a boyfriend or married..? It's not gonna be fair to the child to never grow up without a father, and wonder why the father didn't want them if your just going to get pregnant with whoever cause YOU want a baby.

[David-]

Originally Posted by XxxxmrscxxxX

hey so im only 17 and most people would think getting pregnant now would be crazy but for me its all iv ever wanted, is any1 else in the same boat as me or has had a miscarriage and would want to chat?

Obviously, I'm not a female so I look at this from a different angle. But, if you've had a miscarriage I would question the length of time since it happened. And I question that because I'm concerned if this is a way that you're coping with the loss.

You're not crazy to want a baby; but I do think it is worth looking to see if you can handle a baby. Financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, etc.

Anyways, I'm sure there are females here who will be able and are willing to talk to you on this.

[XxxxmrscxxxX]

the miscarriage was a year ago just over that baby was planned me and my boii are very strong and money is no problem we are very lucky 2 have a nice way of life he is 19 soon and ino its young and i totally understand why people judge and dont understand but i have grown up very quickly and we are both very ready.

[MontrealRepresent]

Are you sure you don't want to finish school? Has he finished school? Does he go to university? What's his work?

[XxxxmrscxxxX]

we have both finished school and he works in a brewery.

[Cadet]

Why not ask your doctor? You'll get the whole speech, but at least you'll know your chances more accurately than you would getting the information from teenagers online.
*Holds back speech you've probably heard before about being too young*

[Sunday's Fantasy]

That's really serious decision, please, think twice about that. Having baby isn't as easy as it seems to be. You'll have a lot of new duties, your life will be totaly different than it's right now. I hope you and your boyfriend are mature enough for that, but why you are so hurry? Have you got your own home? What about your study? About your job? Don't want to looking for any?
I don't think if it's the best idea right now...

[XxxxmrscxxxX]

i am 1 of 8 so i have helpd 2 bring up all my brothers and sisters ino wat im doing and ino the whole age thing

[Sunday's Fantasy]

Okay, if you made a decision and if u have no doubt, I can just wish u all best.