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Teen Pregnancy and Childcare ForumDiscuss teen pregnancy, childcare, teens trying to conceive, ovulation, fertility charting, giving birth and seek all related help and advice.
So about two weeks ago, I was hanging out with this guy that I really liked at his house. We started messing around and such. Long story short, I ended up giving him handjobs and blowjobs. He didn't ejaculate but he did let out some precum which inevitably got on my hand. He told me to finger myself so I did. It was for about 10-15 seconds and I barely went in more than inch or two at the most. It wasn't until he asked that I realized I was using the same hand that I had used on him and I stopped after that. He also fingered me. Knowing him, he could have had some leftover sperm on his fingers from earlier.. activities that he did before I arrived. (He's a total pervert, I regret seeig him now. He totally used to get what he wanted) I've strained my memory and I really can't remember if my fingers were wiped off on anything before I fingered myself. I'm trying to look at this logically. There isn't much sperm in precum and whatever was on my hand was mixed with saliva obviously, too, but I don't know if that makes a difference. It was near my ovulation, give or take a couple days. I'm absolutely freaking out that I could be pregnant, though I'm trying to stay calm so the stress doesn't make my period late, in which case I'd just freak out more. I'm due for a period literally any day now. I've been having some light cramps on and off the past couple days, along with tender breasts, nausea, headaches and minor lower back pain, all of which are regular pms symptoms for me. However they're usually stronger than this and I've also read that those are also early pregnancy symptoms. My friend is bringing me a pregnancy test within the next few days. I just need some peace of mind until then. I'm young but not going to say how young because the last thing I need is to be judged right now. Someone just please help me, my life would be ruined if I was pregnant. My family would hate me, as we're going through enough as it is. Any advice? I'm eager to accept any knowledge on this subject that you have to share. Thanks so much!
But all of the symptoms you stated are the early pregnancy signs so I'd suggest getting the test asap and if it's positive then going to see your doctor.
If it's negative then make you're cautious next time.. be really careful and I know you can get carried away but you need to always think carefully.
EDIT: A lot of pregnancies happen because of precum hence the fact that the "pull-out" method is highly unreliable, so if you did finger yourself with the same sperm fingers, there is a slight chance of you being pregnant..
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Re: Pregnancy from precum or paranoia?
Love, it's extremely unlikely you're pregnant. I don't mean to freak you out, but you CAN get pregnant from precum since it contains sperm, but the chances are neglible compared to actual semen.
Plus, the precum never had any direct entry into your vagina in the first place. Just be a tad bit more careful next time. All the best
i'd take a pregnancy test like right away just to be on the safe side.. but it highly doubt ur pregnant so take a breather and stay calm you cant get pregnant from cum that's dried up..and cum does dry up once it is in contact with air.. idk how long it was before you touched yourself, but since it was only precum, i dont think you would be pregnant. dont worry hun <3
It seems unlikely that you are. But that's no guarantee. There definitely is a chance that you are pregnant as you can get pregnant from an action like that. However, it's not something that you should be freaking out about now. Just try and relax. Take the pregnancy test and see how it turns out. Until then, there's no use freaking out about if you are pregnant or not. Chances are that you aren't.
dude...........to be honest with you i'm 99.9% sure you are not pregnant, sperm needs to be kept warm to stay alive and there is just no possible way that it stayed alive on your hand for 15 seconds and then somehow impregnated you.
sperm just doesn't stay alive on peoples hands.......lol...
also, if you truly think your pregnant you can basically make yourself literally feel the symptoms of it, because you are so convinced that you actually are pregnant.
trust me, i know girls who this has happened with. http://www.webmd.com/baby/guide/fals...y-pseudocyesis
i would obivously still get a test, you ease your mind.
but honestly, i just think your unnecessarily freaking yourself out.