[Doniv Darker]

Oh no, I've always wanted to be a dad, don't get me wrong.. but I'm 16.. I still have 8 years of education to go, before I reach a stable job.. And I won't give away my kid, no way.. I guess I'm a bit too selfish.. Have you ever had a kid BTW, it is incredibly difficult if you don't have two parents, and a high income..
this is mu opinion right now.. it may change after a couple of months maybe.. but you have to respect my decision..

[Jems]

Originally Posted by XxskatergirlxX

soo you would kill that baby because of your mistake? Why don't you put it up for adoption? You don't need to kill it because of what you did wrong

Hey,, it's not because you can handdle having a kid at 16 that everybody do. I couldn't. Let people choose for theirself,, I think think they are intteligent enough for that

[Doniv Darker]

thank you Alex..

[Marionetta]

And I won't give away my kid, no way.. I guess I'm a bit too selfish..

I think you're being hypocritical.
I mean, if you don't wanna give it up - then kill it?
How does that make any logical sense at all?
Because there are plenty of people who are up for open adoptions.
Yes, just like all those stalkers who say "if I can't have you then no one can" and proceed to kill.

but you have to respect my decision..

No, she doesn't have to.
No one has to do anything. She can act respectful, but that doesn't mean she has to respect the opinion.

[Jems]

Originally Posted by Marietta

I think you're being hypocritical.
I mean, if you don't wanna give it up - then kill it?
How does that make any logical sense at all?
Because there are plenty of people who are up for open adoptions.
Yes, just like all those stalkers who say "if I can't have you then no one can" and proceed to kill.
.

I think you are being Hypocritical. You don't ''kill''I hate that term. , it's not even born yet. Sometimes, it is not even Alive yet,, when my exgf got her abortion,, the heart wasn't even pumping yet.
And yes, it makes sense, some people can't go trhought 9 months with someone living inside them to then give it away,, it is really hard, cause you get attach to it in a way,, even if you don't want to. That doesn't mean they don't want to have children in the futur. Some people just can't afford it at 16, some can't just do it. It is something that change your life and YES it does Happen even when you are really careful.
So... what you're saying doesnt' make any logical sense.

[Doniv Darker]

Thank you again Alex.. Was just giving my opinion Marietta.... Geez...

[pinkjeans]

um no i wouldnt

want the true answer?

i fell pregnant at 16 yeah yeah call me a slag whatever...boyfriend (now ex) was 19 at the time...his ex was also pregnant few weeks ahead of me claiming it was his(turns out now it wasnt)
anyhow bf wanted me to have an abortion so i went to hopsitals where they scan you first to see how far along you are...i was 8 weeks i looked even though they said not too and saw the little baby and the heartbeat flickering and couldnt do it.

anyhow had my 12 weeks scan where they said probably having a girl (nub theory so it wasnt entirely accurate) who i named Jamie Louise. And then at 14 weeks her daddy beat me up so frigging badly i miscarried

i have now in total had three miscarriages i was on the pill but had to take anti biotics and fell pregnant twicer after Jamie...both in which ended in miscarriage, due to a medical condition...kills me knowing jamie was probably gona be my only surviving kid and he killed her

makes you grow up pretty fucking quickly

yup there ya all go now you sit and say youd try and end it without having an abortion?!

[Sian <3]

I had my first child at 14, she is now 18 months and i wouldn't be without her for the world, but abortion did cross my mind at first. now i am 28 weeks pregnant with another little girl

[Doniv Darker]

Wait a min, you had your first kid at 14? ! That must have been tough, how did you handle it?

[Paja]

Itshard for me to get pragnant. XD But no.