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Re: If you found out you were pregnant right now would you get an abortion?
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Originally Posted by BlackFlowersFall
So you would be okay with killing a little baby who hasn't had a chance to live?
Yes. Actually, if I was a girl I would get an abortion too. It is cleaar to me, that I can not raise a kid right now, I don't have money, my family is breaking down, how big are the chance that me and my girlfriend will still be together in like 4 years? I don't know. + I couldn't possibly have a baby growing in for 9 months and then giving it to a stanger.
So yea, I would get a abortion.
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Re: If you found out you were pregnant right now would you get an abortion?
Not sure if dudes should post in here but anyway.
This is directed at the people claiming it's murder and cruel to have an abortion. It's quite not, and it's in the early stages it's fine.
Sometimes the best case is to get an abortion, if you can't handle what a baby brings to the table, then it's actually hurting the child/baby. Think about it, a child who gets brought up by a family that doesn't want them, a family that can't afford things that other kids can afford, and stuff along the lines of that. Life is going to be too hard to bare for them, some will resort to stealing, get heavily involved with the wrong crowd, ala smoking, drinkings, drugs and the like.
So just because it might seem a little "In-Humane" sometimes it really is the only option and is the right option.
Re: If you found out you were pregnant right now would you get an abortion?
Obviously I can't get pregnant lol, but if my girlfriend was pregnant, I'd try not to let it be her decision.
Personally, I think I'd want an abortion as I don't think at the moment we're in a position to be raising a child. However, I'm not saying I'd tell her to have one, if she wanted to keep the child then I'd stick by her
Re: If you found out you were pregnant right now would you get an abortion?
If my some miracle I became the next Virgin Mary... then no, I wouldn't abort. I'd never abort my own child.
Obviously I have a biological responsibility to my child. So no matter what state I'm in, I'd never abort my baby. I've got family, a lot of whom would be thrilled to raise a child.
Besides, I have high morals, no murder whatsoever unless I'm being attacked.
Even in the case of rape, I doubt I'd get an abortion, I couldn't kill an innocent being no matter how much I wanted to. And I wouldn't allow myself for an innocent child to be put in harms way.
Besides, it wasn't the kids fault. The bastard who raped me is at fault - in which case, let him rot in his own personal hell because I will not give him the satisfaction of killing proof of what he did to me nor will I allow the child to grow up to be like him.
But I'm a really stubborn bitch, once I decide something - my mind doesn't change.
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Re: If you found out you were pregnant right now would you get an abortion?
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Originally Posted by markus209
Obviously I can't get pregnant lol, but if my girlfriend was pregnant, I'd try not to let it be her decision.
Personally, I think I'd want an abortion as I don't think at the moment we're in a position to be raising a child. However, I'm not saying I'd tell her to have one, if she wanted to keep the child then I'd stick by her
Just re-read that, i meant "I'd try to let it be her decision, and not influence her too much"
Re: If you found out you were pregnant right now would you get an abortion?
no i would never have an abort if i had no way to care for a child then i would put in forster care or open adoption until i got on my feet!! i do understand why some women have abortion and obv thats the rite choice for them. but it just wouldnt be the rite decision for me! but i do have to say that i find it disgusting that some parents force there daughters int having an abortion how would you feel if it was you?!