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Old 13-02-11, 11:14 AM   #1
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I really need help! I cant stop thinking about wanting a baby and its starting to affect my relationship with my boyfriend because he's really against it! Please help!!!
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Old 13-02-11, 11:37 AM   #2
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Well, first off, knowing your age would help a great deal...

But, truthfully, having a baby is a huge responsibility and one that both partners must be ready to 'take on'.
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Old 13-02-11, 11:40 AM   #3
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Lucy, I really want a baby too! or Three!

The issue isn't 'Wanting'...desire is fine, it feels good, it's something to look forward to and plan for as a goal...but, unless you're old enough and your lifestyle is stable enough, then it should remain just that: A strong desire, and you should control the urge to act on it and make it a reality.
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it's just so frustrating.... constantly in the back of my head!
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I would highly suggest that you make sure that your life is in order before you have a baby. Make sure you finish school (if you're in school), make sure you have some source of income, and make sure your boyfriend is ok with it ( you already said that he's against it, and it may be cause it's too early).




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Old 13-02-11, 12:08 PM   #6
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I'm the same age as you and pregnant my suggestion is to wait your too young wait afew years until you have enough money and a stable relationship.
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I'm the same age as you and pregnant my suggestion is to wait your too young wait afew years until you have enough money and a stable relationship.
i agree. i am 18, about to be 19, and am pregnant with twins. and honestly, i think that i am too young. yes, i have a job and have a stable place to live. baby daddy may not be in the picture if he does not straighten out... i will need help, financially, physically, and mentally. i am only 16 weeks, and i have break downs... it is hard being pregnant. i have medical problems too, so that does not help any.

i suggest to wait a while. wait till you are out of school, have a steady job, a strong relationship, a place of your own...
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Old 13-02-11, 12:34 PM   #8
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thank you! really got me re-evaluating how i feel...!
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thank you! really got me re-evaluating how i feel...!

Good I kind of no what your feeling the idea of a baby sounds very good but the actual truth of it is wayyyyyyy different.
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Good I kind of no what your feeling the idea of a baby sounds very good but the actual truth of it is wayyyyyyy different.
i have always wanted a baby young. and i am getting two!! but the reality is tough. you want something and then reality hits you and then you change your mind. it is hard.
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