Originally Posted by faithx
I'm 17 and pregnant, and I strongly advise you not to deliberately get pregnant at this age! You're only 15, you can't have even finished school yet! Get all the qualifications you want first, go to college/uni. Have a life first because you won't be able to have much of one after!
When I found out I was scared, because I'm so young but fortunately I have an good circle of friends, a very supportive family and my boyfriend is amazing so I think things will be okay. Have you got a strong steady relationship? Could you support a child financially? There are so many things to think about!
i am 18, will be 19 in a week, and i am pregnant with twins. yes, i know that i am older than you, but that doesnt mean anything, i am still a teenager, going to be a teen mom.
i thought i had a steady relationship (him and i were going out for about a year when i found out, then her left me because i would not get an abortion. he came back, and now he is gone again!) i can support the boys financially, but just barely. i dont have a steady place to live. i may have to drop out of a really really good college. my family is supportive, but not much. (they are more excited and not supportive)
i am sorry to ramble about myself. you should finish high school before you have a baby. because without that (if you are in the USA), you may not get too far with getting a job. i am not saying it is ok to get pregnant, but wait till you have your high school diploma, a steady/good job, your relationship has to be very
strong (not just strong), would be good if you could drive. plus, you dont want to set a "bad example" for your baby (mainly if its a girl), if you get pregnant as a teenager. that would take a lot to keep your child from doing that. also, i am not saying that you would be a bad mum, not saying that at all. but you have to think about yourself.
message me if you want/need to talk