Im not sure if my best friend is being abused by his gf. He told me that they argue lots and that she has personality disorders. Last week when I seen him he said to me that he will be going away for a few days with his gf and when I seen him yesterday he had a huge black eye.

I asked him how the hell did it happen and he told me that he had fell over. Im sure he is lieing about it, falling over doesnt make a black eye like that.

I dont want to upset him or ask him about it but I feel I need to do something to help and be there for him, what is the best thing to do? tnx

Make sure that he knows he can always talk to you about anything, and that you're always there for him.. and that if he needs to talk you're there.

I'm not sure what else to say.. As your friend needs to be willing to tallk about it with you before you can help... But honestly, you will have gone a long way in helping with the things I mentioned already, I think... Idk.. Be there for him.

It's important to tell someone, it may not sound like the best thing but in the long run you may help the person in question. people need happiness and if this is happening to your friend then something needs to be done about it.

I would suggest sitting down with your friend and speaking to him alone, as him to tell you how he feels but you have to remember that every single relationship goes through hard times. Problems only get sorted out if you talk about it and try to reslove the issue.

Even if you do upset him to start off with it needs sorting and I'm sure it will be for the best in the end, your friend clearly isn't happy.

Kind Regards
Banjo.

Try to help him get the courage to dump her.

Why not try to resolve it? Timmaurs?

THat is technically resolving it.

The main problem for men being abused by women is that they are mainly embaressed by the fact that they let women do this, tbh, he must be a nice person because like myself, i would never hit a girl, even if they are hitting me.

Maybe you could bring up the subject one day, or just ask him and be there like a friend should, hope he sorts it out :(