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Blackmailed | This is a discussion on Blackmailed within the Your Body and Mind forums, part of the Help and Advice Forums category; Quote: Originally Posted by Rogan
If this is the case then you have to go to the authorities. Not the ... |
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26-02-10, 11:23 AM
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Re: Blackmailed
Quote: Originally Posted by Rogan
If this is the case then you have to go to the authorities. Not the police obviously but the child welfare officiers or social services, whatever the equivalent in your country is. Tell them that he's raped you and is controlling and hurting you and they'll make it stop. Tell them too about the blackmailing. That falls under their responsibility too. You don't have to go through the police, they're independent from them.
In the UK, we have something called the Police Complaint Commission. They handle complaints that anyone has against the police. If you have a similar organisation, go to them and they will deal with your father. They don't work alongside the police, they work above it, making sure the entire police force (including the Inspector General) works within the law.
As stated earlier, my Dad is like the Don. No one including the politicians, ministers, oppose him. All are just like friends with him.
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26-02-10, 11:37 AM
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Re: Blackmailed
Quote: Originally Posted by Katrina
As stated earlier, my Dad is like the Don. No one including the politicians, ministers, oppose him. All are just like friends with him.
The police are not above the law. There will be people who don't know him who have the power to sort this out. Speak to the social services about it and at least then you've tried, even if it turns out that avenue is blocked. And if it is blocked, try somewhere else. You can't just give up because a way out is unlikely. There is a way, you just have to find it. Also, are these people still going to be friends with him if they found out he raped his own daughter?
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26-02-10, 05:17 PM
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Re: Blackmailed
Quote: Originally Posted by Katrina
This Wednesday I was having sex with one of my BF. But the scene was shot on a camera by an ex-BF of mine.
Now he is threatening me to either have sex with him else he will show the video to my father( he is the Inspector General of police). So I can't even complain to the police. Also I have a feud going on with my father.
What should I do? 
Okay, Okay. Here what you do grab a hammer and put it to the fuckers face grab the camera and smash it. Your home free.
Or apologize to your father a talk to him about the situation. Eithier way your father has to do something or he's hitting the streets.
See, there's always more then one option.
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26-02-10, 05:22 PM
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Re: Blackmailed
Quote: Originally Posted by Katrina
This Wednesday I was having sex with one of my BF. But the scene was shot on a camera by an ex-BF of mine.
Now he is threatening me to either have sex with him else he will show the video to my father( he is the Inspector General of police). So I can't even complain to the police. Also I have a feud going on with my father.
What should I do? 
Not only is this blackmail but attempting rape! That's two crimes and he could be locked up for five years. So you got two crimes on an EX no less and while you the evidence is the victim. If I were you thought I'd fake-sex him and then rob the camera from him and run. Proof for proof.
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26-02-10, 06:15 PM
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Re: Blackmailed
Quote: Originally Posted by Katrina
I think you guys have misunderstood my Dad(he does not deserved to be called so). He is one of those rascals who has raped his own daughter. He uses me and my step-mom(she herself is only 26 years old) just as pleasure fulfilling objects. 
If that is really the case then, as much as I hate to say this, you'll have to take it above your father.
Also, we didn't misunderstand - you just didn't tell us until now.
You have two options, kill your father or run away.
Option 1:
If you can prove what he did to you then you'll be fine.
Option 2:
Witness protection.
I'm not sure where you live, but if the police where you live are really that corrupted then you only have those two options.
Personally, if I were you, I'd kill all three of them, grab my mother, then get the fuck out of there.
If you like I can give you some ideas... Rat poison, a hammer, a shovel, a pitchfork, a gun, a shot-gun, hedge-clippers.
I suggest the rat poison, personally.
Also... I don't think you wanna try. You say you want help and yet we are giving you options yet you seem to think the worse will happen.
No one is so clever that they don't have an opening.
All people have weak moments. The idea is to find that moment and then exploit it.
If your father really has that much power then he must be arrogant.
That's his weak point, therefore it can be exploited. He won't have every angle covered because he feels secure as it is.
Basically, kill him in his sleep.
That oughta do it.
Your father is not the be-all end-all. There is always someone above them.
No one is above the law, esp. if you have proof.
Also, all politics are local. I'd venture to say your father's power is limited to a confined area.
If you get outside said area then there isn't much he could do.
However, if you run then you'll be running your whole life.
Esp. if you stay in the same country.
If you kill him now though, that's the end of it as then he no longer has any control over the people.
Unless, of course, he's a part of the mob.
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26-02-10, 09:18 PM
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Re: Blackmailed
Quote: Originally Posted by Marietta
If that is really the case then, as much as I hate to say this, you'll have to take it above your father.
Also, we didn't misunderstand - you just didn't tell us until now.
You have two options, kill your father or run away.
Option 1:
If you can prove what he did to you then you'll be fine.
Option 2:
Witness protection.
I'm not sure where you live, but if the police where you live are really that corrupted then you only have those two options.
Personally, if I were you, I'd kill all three of them, grab my mother, then get the fuck out of there.
If you like I can give you some ideas... Rat poison, a hammer, a shovel, a pitchfork, a gun, a shot-gun, hedge-clippers.
I suggest the rat poison, personally.
Also... I don't think you wanna try. You say you want help and yet we are giving you options yet you seem to think the worse will happen.
No one is so clever that they don't have an opening.
All people have weak moments. The idea is to find that moment and then exploit it.
If your father really has that much power then he must be arrogant.
That's his weak point, therefore it can be exploited. He won't have every angle covered because he feels secure as it is.
Basically, kill him in his sleep.
That oughta do it.
Your father is not the be-all end-all. There is always someone above them.
No one is above the law, esp. if you have proof.
Also, all politics are local. I'd venture to say your father's power is limited to a confined area.
If you get outside said area then there isn't much he could do.
However, if you run then you'll be running your whole life.
Esp. if you stay in the same country.
If you kill him now though, that's the end of it as then he no longer has any control over the people.
Unless, of course, he's a part of the mob.
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27-02-10, 01:31 AM
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Re: Blackmailed
I would just tell your father. :/ Only thing to do I'm sorry to say. It's not illegal if you gave permission to your ex to film this shot. If you agreed to having him film it then your fucked.
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27-02-10, 08:04 PM
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Re: Blackmailed
Wow, dont sink low to be that dudes object, because of blackmail, find out where he's hiding the tape, and take it! if you can't tell another police officer to not tell yo daddy, and try and confiscate it by force, if he refuses let the police officer give him a choice of arresting him and getting the tape and press charges or just hand the tape over now and end it, once he gives it to the guy, just drop it there don't take charges further or anything, and if he refuses to give it, then take it further who gives a fuck about your father, if he doesn't treat you fair, then let him suck on his job.
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03-03-10, 04:30 AM
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Re: Blackmailed
well, if you father is that much of a bastard, then why do you worry about getting into arguments with him? tell him what happened and if he does nothing, go to someone higher. there IS someone higher up than him.
i would also suggest learning karate or something. one of my friends is a blackbelt, and she learned so she could defend herself against her father.
and tell your ex to fuck the hell of and for good measure kick him in the balls.
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04-03-10, 05:48 AM
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Name: Katrina
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Re: Blackmailed
I have now left my house and am going to stay with my BF(he stays alone in his mansion). I am quite happy with this agreement as we are staying in another city.
But the thing that is troubling me is when my Dad comes to know about it as I have already complained about him to the police in this city. Also I am weary of the society who just don't like two unmarried youngsters living together.
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