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This Wednesday I was having sex with one of my BF. But the scene was shot on a camera by an ex-BF of mine.
Now he is threatening me to either have sex with him else he will show the video to my father( he is the Inspector General of police). So I can't even complain to the police. Also I have a feud going on with my father.
What should I do?
OMG you are in a bit of a mess honey.
DO NOT have sex with him if you don't want to.
Cant you speak to a different police officer and ask if they wont tell your dad?
Because he can get done for black mail.
I'm sorry that this has happened. I assume that your father seeing that you've slept with someone is a bad thing. If your father did see it however, once you've explained that you were blackmailed, as a police officer he might accept it and do whatever he can do to your ex-BF (I'm not sure whether blackmail is punishable where you are and to what level).
Don't have sex with your ex-BF though. Even once you have had sex with him, he'll still have the tape and he can use it again and again to get what he wants from you. Is there another police officer you can talk to instead and ask that your father isn't informed? As Inspector General though, he might have to be told about it. Ask them what will happen if you tell them.
I don't know your family situation but most fathers would want to protect their daughter and he might overlook the fact that you slept with someone and make sure that your ex-BF can't hurt you.
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This ex boyfriend of yours is clearly a idiot...
What hes done is illegal (im not 100% sure about laws there) and if he is the Inspector General of police.. your ex showing him the video isnt a very good idea.
The major problem is that my Dad is like the Don of the city and furthermore he thinks of my ex in really high esteem.
I am 100% sure that if my Dad comes to know about this, he will not even hesitate to harass me more. He himself may be in relationship with many girls but still nobody in the city has the guts to oppose him because he has a huge amount of money and muscle power.
Your chances are better with your father.
Typically above all else fathers care for their daughters very much even if they get into fights.
I'm not saying you won't get harassed by your father, but would you rather be used for the rest of your life?
Because really... do you think they won't give him the video if you have sex? Even if they don't they'll only keep video taping and threatening you.
It's a never ending cycle that way. But at least if you tell your father there's a chance he'll forgive you.
Aside from which, even if your dad is shown a video then I can guarantee these guys are gonna end up dead in a gutter somewhere.
Blackmail is illegal, your father must know this.
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It sounds like he is forcing you to have sex with him. If you can talk, to an officer who will promise not to tell your father, if you do not want to tell him anything. Your ex-boyfriend could go to jail. Do not have sex with him if you don't want to. It's your body and mind to do with what you want; not his. But would it really be so horrible to go and tell your father about this? Even if you two have a feud going on, I'm sure he will be concerned and do everything to help you; you are after all his daughter.
I think you guys have misunderstood my Dad(he does not deserved to be called so). He is one of those rascals who has raped his own daughter. He uses me and my step-mom(she herself is only 26 years old) just as pleasure fulfilling objects.
I think you guys have misunderstood my Dad(he does not deserved to be called so). He is one of those rascals who has raped his own daughter. He uses me and my step-mom(she herself is only 26 years old) just as pleasure fulfilling objects.
If this is the case then you have to go to the authorities. Not the police obviously but the child welfare officiers or social services, whatever the equivalent in your country is. Tell them that he's raped you and is controlling and hurting you and they'll make it stop. Tell them too about the blackmailing. That falls under their responsibility too. You don't have to go through the police, they're independent from them.
In the UK, we have something called the Police Complaint Commission. They handle complaints that anyone has against the police. If you have a similar organisation, go to them and they will deal with your father. They don't work alongside the police, they work above it, making sure the entire police force (including the Inspector General) works within the law.
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