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But the feeling is uncomfortable. It hurts and it feels too tight and slimy and...I don't know. I feel sad just thinking about it, like my womanhood is gone :(.

you will be alright. it can be uncomfortable for a while. i will admit that it is still uncomfortable for me sometimes.

I hope someday it works out. I don't want to be a scared virgin. It sucks.

Going Mano on your Vagina won't help. I mean, don't over-think it. Some things take time, a lot of girls experience general discomfort and tend to get over-anxious about it, which worsens the problem. And don't be thinking without sex you're doomed, that's bullshit. I know couples who haven't done it for a year but still maintain a healthy relationship. Besides, your body just might not be ready at this juncture of time.

Haha you'll be fine.Your just not used to it and having a complete stranger put something in you can be scary as hell. Maybe when your with someone you love
and are comfortable with you'll over come your fear.Unless your afraid of the pain.

Well let's see, first of all you have something shoved up there when you haven't previously been turned on. So, comparing that to actual sex isn't the same.
And second, you're not broken, when you get broken it wont be as bad -afterafewdaysthatis-

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Not the best way you could have put it...

Maybe I'm overthinking it. Fingers and cotton swabs aren't exactly comfortable, no one wants something bony and hard or rigid and pointy inside them...maybe I'll enjoy sex, when I have it. I don't want to make it a big deal anyways...

Dee, it's ok to be scared.. your not in a relationship.. but when you are in a stable relationship and you both love each other it'll feel right.