User Image
Posts: 542, Threads: 14
Last Activity: 25-05-12 07:43 AM

Teen Forums - Teen Chat, Teen Help, Teen Advice & Support


If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ by clicking the link above. You may have to register before you can post: click the register link above to proceed. To start viewing messages, select the forum that you want to visit from the selection below.



Your Body and Mind Seek & share advice with teens on aspects of your body including your mind, fitness, mental & physical abuse, disabilities, puberty, drugs, alcohol & more.

Reply
Old 10-12-11, 03:21 PM   #1
 
Lilly's Avatar
My Mood:  Crappy
 
Name: Elizabeth Fitch
Gender: Female
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 421
Support Physical abuse.

I have created this thread so that people like me can have someone to talk to.

Okay, so last year and halfway through this year i was physically abused. By my stepdad. My stepdad has brain damage and epilepsy but that isnt an excuse for him to have put me through what he put me through. The physical abuse only stopped earlier this year because my stepdad is now having therapy for his anger and moodswings. I felt at the time he started his therapy that i was the one who should have been having a councillor. Things got so bad last year that my mum coud no longer leave me at home on my own with him. I have been with my mum all the time ever since. I will never forgive what he did to me but I will learn to accept it and move on. Even if that isnt yet. He also screwed up my head, made my self esteem plummet which has never risen since but the eorst thinf was going to school with the bruises that I coudnt hide. Like the black eye he gave me a few times that I had to make up a story for. But the rest i think i hid pretty well.That's my story. Thats now and always will be a part of me.
If you need to talk just write a post below
Lilly is offline   Reply With Quote
Advertisement
Old 10-12-11, 03:43 PM   #2
 
solitude's Avatar
My Mood:  Pensive
 
Name: Zoe
Age: 16
Gender: Female
Join Date: Apr 2011
Location: UK
Posts: 256
Default Re: Physical abuse.

well you could class what ive had as physical abuse at times from my parents (mainly my mum)

sorry to hear it sounds really hard lily
solitude is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-12-11, 04:02 PM   #3
 
Lilly's Avatar
My Mood:  Crappy
 
Name: Elizabeth Fitch
Gender: Female
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 421
Default Re: Physical abuse.

It was at the time but you just learn to block things out i guess. Why what happened?
Lilly is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 10-12-11, 06:17 PM   #4
Equality Égalité Igualdad
 
Walt's Avatar
My Mood:  Doh
 
Name: Walter
Age: 17
Gender: Male
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Bay Shore, New York
Posts: 1,835
Default Re: Physical abuse.

Omg!!! my dad snuff me one time but my mom said she was going to move to one of the houses her parents have in Los Angeles and he hasn't since.
Walt is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-12-11, 02:13 AM   #5
 
Lilly's Avatar
My Mood:  Crappy
 
Name: Elizabeth Fitch
Gender: Female
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 421
Default Re: Physical abuse.

Are you okay now though?
Lilly is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-12-11, 08:57 AM   #6
 
Lilly's Avatar
My Mood:  Crappy
 
Name: Elizabeth Fitch
Gender: Female
Join Date: Sep 2010
Posts: 421
Default Re: Physical abuse.

Hope your okay now though*
Lilly is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 11-12-11, 09:08 AM   #7
Muse Addict
 
LaurenTheNerd's Avatar
My Mood:  InLove
 
Name: Lauren
Age: 16
Gender: Female
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: UK
Posts: 5,245
Default Re: Physical abuse.

Well, I feel very sorry that you had to go through this...but he had brain damage..I really think that, although what he did was unacceptable, that he may not have done it had he been well.

I'm glad to hear you're getting through it though, if you ever need to talk feel free to pm/vm me









Kirk <3
LaurenTheNerd is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 12-12-11, 12:01 PM   #8
Equality Égalité Igualdad
 
Walt's Avatar
My Mood:  Doh
 
Name: Walter
Age: 17
Gender: Male
Join Date: Sep 2011
Location: Bay Shore, New York
Posts: 1,835
Default Re: Physical abuse.

@Lilly If you are talking to me... yeah i'm okay...

PS if you put the @ sign before the username of the person they get a notification.
Walt is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 08:10 AM. Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.
SEO by vBSEO ©2011, Crawlability, Inc.







TeenForumz will never have pop-up or annoying ads. Thanks for NOT supporting us!