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Hello, this is something that i have been worried for several months, i think i ejactulate too fast, whenever i masturbate, it takes me about one minute after i got erected. And it's worse if i do some "foreplay" or if im thinking of something very hot. It used to take me longer but now it's too fast. I've talked to other people and no one is like me. Do i have a problem? (i know it's early to be worried (im gonna turn 16 in june but i fear this is bigger.) Is there a way to delay my ejaculation?
No, there is nothing wrong with you. Early ejaculation is something quite common during puberty, and while not all teens go through it, some go through it more than others and such, it's nothing abnormal. Do not worry, as your sexual system matures, your ejaculations will stabilize.
"If I do good, people might accuse me of selfish, ulterior motives, but I will still do it. Because I believe no one is malicious, not in their core, in their raw being.
The best in them is clouded by sorrows and fears, take those away and you'll bring out the brightest of lights in them.
Because no one can be happy without being kind, without giving ourselves to another, and we all love to give ourselves, it is our true nature.
That is why, even if I might get disappointed, I'll always give the best I've got. A single candle can light a thousand others and still burn." - Skezra
No, there is nothing wrong with you. Early ejaculation is something quite common during puberty, and while not all teens go through it, some go through it more than others and such, it's nothing abnormal. Do not worry, as your sexual system matures, your ejaculations will stabilize.
Ok thanks, i'm a little bit reliefed now, but there is one thing i am concerned about.
When i start my sexual life, how will i do it properly in order to give my girlfriend pleasure while having this problem? And what about all the other times when im masturbating with a friend (not gay) and i ejaculate too fast? It's sort of embarassing if you know what i mean, especially when i'll have sex with my gf :/
Ok thanks, i'm a little bit reliefed now, but there is one thing i am concerned about.
When i start my sexual life, how will i do it properly in order to give my girlfriend pleasure while having this problem? And what about all the other times when im masturbating with a friend (not gay) and i ejaculate too fast? It's sort of embarassing if you know what i mean, especially when i'll have sex with my gf :/
Well, 15/16 may be too early to initiate in sex. Of course this depends on the teen, but still it is too early in general. If you have premature ejaculations, the only way they will go away is that you wait it out untill your sexual system becomes more stable. It's much physical as it is psychological, so try to relax as well.
If you're too embarassed about it when masturbating in group, then just choose not to masturbate in group, or just relax when you are masturbating in group. In the girlfriend case, there is not much you can do but wait it out untill you mature.
After a period of premature ejaculations, your system will stabilize and you'll slowly manage to hold on for longer. If this proceeds until the age of 18, check a doctor about it. But, I doubt that will be necessary.
"If I do good, people might accuse me of selfish, ulterior motives, but I will still do it. Because I believe no one is malicious, not in their core, in their raw being.
The best in them is clouded by sorrows and fears, take those away and you'll bring out the brightest of lights in them.
Because no one can be happy without being kind, without giving ourselves to another, and we all love to give ourselves, it is our true nature.
That is why, even if I might get disappointed, I'll always give the best I've got. A single candle can light a thousand others and still burn." - Skezra
Well, 15/16 may be too early to initiate in sex. Of course this depends on the teen, but still it is too early in general. If you have premature ejaculations, the only way they will go away is that you wait it out untill your sexual system becomes more stable. It's much physical as it is psychological, so try to relax as well.
If you're too embarassed about it when masturbating in group, then just choose not to masturbate in group, or just relax when you are masturbating in group. In the girlfriend case, there is not much you can do but wait it out untill you mature.
After a period of premature ejaculations, your system will stabilize and you'll slowly manage to hold on for longer. If this proceeds until the age of 18, check a doctor about it. But, I doubt that will be necessary.
Thanks, i'm much more enlightned on this subject now
"If I do good, people might accuse me of selfish, ulterior motives, but I will still do it. Because I believe no one is malicious, not in their core, in their raw being.
The best in them is clouded by sorrows and fears, take those away and you'll bring out the brightest of lights in them.
Because no one can be happy without being kind, without giving ourselves to another, and we all love to give ourselves, it is our true nature.
That is why, even if I might get disappointed, I'll always give the best I've got. A single candle can light a thousand others and still burn." - Skezra
It's always possible that u have a physical problem (unlikely, but just throwing it out there, not trying to make u nervous). Truth is we arent doctors so who knows. But huge odds say its just sumthing that most guys hve at first. Best advice is geez just relax. You havent even been with a girl yet and u are worried. However 1 minute for masturbating is dang fast. Advice, practice, slow down, try to lst longer and longer. When you do shoot your wad, as soon as you get hard again go again. Since you are masturbating in groups, watch them and see if they do it different, ask them questions. If you are open enough to jerk off with others you certainly must be open enough to ask them advice.
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