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Hey, so i have a girlfriend and we like to give pleasure to each other (not sex, though, we're not ready for that yet) and, according to what she says and to what i see, i can satisfy her, no problem so far, but the problem here is, when it's my turn, i just can't, i don't get any pleasure and i can't understan why, i like her, i've masturbated before and got "tones" pleasure but when it's her like touching it, i don't feel horny whatsoever. This is really odd because before she ever even touched my penis (skin to hand), she would fondle (?) my penis with my pants on the top and i would just go NUTS but now, sometimes, i can't even get a boner, have any idea whats happening and/or how i can get pleasured again? Is it possible that my penis is less sensitive to the touch?
P.S.: I've tried different things like touching her boobs, feeling her vagina but it didn't work so well, the small ammount of pleasure it produced didn't last more than just a few seconds
Sophisticated ignorance, write my curses in cursive
I get it custom, you a customer
You ain't ‘customed to going through Customs, you ain’t been nowhere, huh?
Blow me. I'm giving an honest suggestion. Touching dicks doesn't always get someone hard, you need to go a bit further.
Sophisticated ignorance, write my curses in cursive
I get it custom, you a customer
You ain't ‘customed to going through Customs, you ain’t been nowhere, huh?
maybe you are used to it and it doesnt turn you on the same way it did ..
You were more horny and getting it because of that , now maybe you want something more
sometimes we put up walls , not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to knock them down.
just try a blow job.
Ive met guys who can get a handjob from a girl and it's hot but they don't like using their own hand to masturbate, it doesn't gross them out just doesn't work.
From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.
Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3
What she's doing just might not be enough to turn you on like it used to. The best thing is to try something new and see if that helps at all. A hand is just sometimes not enough to get things going.
Thanks everyone, but i'm not ready for blowjobs or sex yet.
Imagine that, hipotecticly, she was about to give me a blowjob, but i wasnt stiff, what would i do?