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fed up with people making me feel like i shud b locked away im not skinny im not pretty but im fed up of the way people are its just driving me crazy!

How do they make you feel like this?

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

just name calling always got sumin 2 say and its never good

Just ignore them. People who are name-callers and bullies are often the insecure ones themselves. They just want a reaction out of you. If you ignore them, and don't give them the satisfaction they're looking for, chances are they'll move on.

i guess so

NO.
The bully won't go away if you ignore it.
He/she will just try harder to bother you.

At least in most of the cases ...

I've been through that.
It's horrible. Good luck.

I've found ignoring to be most successful. Or, you can let them finish and be like "Anything else?" with a smirk on your face or an eye roll. Let them know that even though it does bother you, you won't give them the satisafaction of letting them know that.

"A toothache, or a violent passion, is not necessarily diminished by our knowledge of its causes, its character, its importance or insignificance".- T.S. Eliot

Just try and hold on to the fact you have a guy who loves you and who you've slept with, if your looks were bad he wouldn't have.

From joy to sorrow, yesterday to tomorrow, you've been there. Friends like you are rare, your touch is so gentle,
You're my guardian angel.
Like a blossoming flower spreading your wings in grace, filling my heart with power
by feeling your embrace.

Wherever the wind may blow, we will overcome this war, in times happy or sore, I will never let you go.
With a gentle warm heart and a will of stone, We'll never be apart, You'll never be alone. - John <3

Don't worry about what other people say about how you look. It doesn't matter if they think you're ugly because they are wrong. You are beautiful and as long as you know that, then that's all that really matters. As far as dealing with the bully, you can give them the opposite response to what they are expecting. It will help you feel a bit better and it catches them off guard. If you can't ignore them (which I have found to be the best message), giving them the opposite of what they expect might work pretty well too.

People treat me like that too. I'd just ignore them, even if it doesn't work.